Oops. Apparently I’m Dodging You?

Sorry about that. I guess I do this sometimes. It’s not intentional, and it’s really not about you. This is more a thing I notice with MYSELF, that has happened enough times that I’ve gone so far as to make this generic page explaining that it really isn’t about you, whoever you are.

The usual way that this works is that you tried to contact me when I was feeling anxious or unprepared to deal with the contact, and then I incurred a social debt to get back to you. Then, I didn’t get back to you before you checked in again and now we pile shame on the debt and we’re off to a vicious cycle.

I’m weird about my communication, and I can tell you that I have it in me to keep this up for YEARS if I don’t address it (the first time I noticed this was after I dodged someone for 5 years oops).

Really, sending you this is just acknowledging the situation and declaring social-debt-bankruptcy.